In this world, not many people are happy, and I classify people in two groups only:
- Those who are happy.
- Those who are not happy.
Most of us are in the second category, and we are working hard to switch over to the first category, but we are unable to make the switch.
So, what can we do to be happy?
I have some tips for you. Read them and please let me know if it helps you in some way.
Set achievable daily goals
With long term goals, we keep thinking whether we will achieve it or not. So, it is better to make small, achievable goals that can be fulfilled. Again, we are talking about daily goals. So, you can surely understand what can be done today. Don’t think of tomorrow. Like a New Year resolution, make a daily resolution and try to fulfill it.
Smile and compliment
We compliment others about their smile and hear compliments about our smile too. Even if others do not compliment you for your smile, look in the mirror and compliment yourself.
Complimenting yourself, you are ensuring that at least one person in this world is happy because of your smile. Yes, that person is in your mirror but he/she is there, right?
So, smile and compliment yourself.
Make others happy
Well, if you can make someone else happy, you will feel happy too. Making other happy, you are surrounding yourself with positivity. So, do that on a regular basis.
One way of making others happy is by saying something nice about them. However, overdoing it, you will make them frown. So, compliment them but don’t overdo your efforts. You don’t want them to run behind you with a stick in their hand. Hehe!
Walking down the street, you will find n number of opportunities to help others. It is your call. Firstly, do you want to help someone? If yes, them whom? How many?
No one is forcing you to help someone. It is at will that you are helping them. In return, you might get a calm thank you or maybe nothing. Also, don’t expect them to help you in return.
Helping is an act of kindness. If you help someone, God helps you to stay calm, peaceful and stress-free. Having said that, we are not saying that helping ten people daily will be enough. But, we should help without expecting anything.
Thank god, at least once a day
Again, walk down the street, and you will find so many people who are unable to walk. Some people are moving around without hands; some are living on an income that is less than one-tenth of your income; here you will find an opportunity to thank God. Do thank him because he has blessed you with something that is not gifted to the person who is on the other side of the road. Thank him, thank for everything.
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